Simple Holiness

Strengthening the family in faith

When our now-adult children were young, I found manners videos at the library, which we watched together and talked about how we would use them while we were on a special vacation that summer.

A holy husband and wife

When we begin our marriages as Catholics, we always do so in a Catholic Church, under the guidance of a Catholic priest or deacon, who administer the sacrament of matrimony before the witnesses gathered there. We have also engaged in all the preparation required for a successful wedding day. But primarily, our focus must be on the union we are creating in the eyes of God.

Becoming a witness to the Christian life

Living a Christian life is not an easy task. Deciding to provide a witness for the image of a Christian requires that we intimately know the One we represent. To help us understand what is asked of us, let us turn to “Caritas in Veritate,” the encyclical letter by the late Pope Benedict XVI.

Checking in on Lent

How is your Lent going? Have you remained committed to your intended fast and your added prayer? Have you continued giving alms to a group you support, by turning away from a luxury you typically enjoy and offering that money to someone in need?

Self-love: Love that counteracts shame

Some people might read this column’s headline and think it is self-indulgent and not appropriate for the month of love. However, self-love must be present before we can love others. The greatest impediment to self-love is shame. The late John Bradshaw, counselor and motivational speaker, explains “the feeling of shame has a demonic potential to encompass our whole personality … a person can come to believe that his (or her) whole self is fundamentally flawed and defective.”

A new year to grow in our Catholic faith

We have a new year upon us! If you are reading this, you have survived a turbulent time. We all experienced a, hopefully, once-in-a-century pandemic; an unprecedented election cycle that may still be unresolved; and an economy that has shaken us to our core. Our faith may feel as if it is the only constant we can lean on and find predictable. But do we have a strong faith life? This may be the year to invest yourself in becoming a stronger Catholic Christian.

Presence or presents?

Christmas is known for giving presents to one another, and yet what we fundamentally crave is the presence of others. The experience of feeling validated by others is foundational to a healthy, adult life.

Calming the body and brain

When we think about fearful experiences or events, we ignite in our physical bodies a fear response of fight, flight or freeze. If we live in a fear modality, we will cause ourselves to live in a fear-filled way.

Call upon Our Lady of the Rosary

Most Catholics know that May is the month we honor the Virgin Mary, but many people do not realize that October is another month of the year in which we especially venerate our Lord’s mother.

Knowing your ‘why’

When I was a practicing therapist, I would often talk with my clients about "knowing our why.” Our “why” was the reason, or reasons, we told ourselves was the impetus for the actions, or inactions, we took in life. When we know our “why,” we can more clearly understand the “what” we must do to achieve this “why.” And our “what” always sends us back to our “why,” so that the process is circular in nature, as well as progressive.

Finding virtue through the Catholic faith

It will come as no surprise to most people, even Catholics, that what we have experienced over the past 30 months has created indifference: a lack of interest, concern or empathy for the predicament of others. Even if an individual is commonly known for being compassionate, the past two-and-a-half years have created exhaustion and fatigue.

Creating a culture of dialogue

At times of disagreement and incongruity involving the opinions of others, it often seems easier to gravitate toward anger that leads to arguments, rather than discussions that may lead to some level of understanding. No matter how we feel about the decision of the Supreme Court in June to overturn Roe v. Wade, we have witnessed the reactions of both sides.
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